A guy who likes you but is uncertain of your response may go to great lengths to hide his feelings for you.
But there are times when he’d unknowingly give away a few signs without realizing it himself, especially when you
The next time you’re around this guy who you think likes you, watch out for these little signs.
They can be a big clue in figuring out if he does like you or is just playing nice.
1. He gets jealous around you
When you talk to a few other guys and give them your undivided attention or even get a bit touchy feely or flirt with them, does this particular friend of yours get moody or surly?
One of the signs that a guy likes you is his uncontainable jealousy.
When a guy likes you, he can’t help but feel insecure when he perceives another guy as competition to him.
Men are extremely competitive, especially around women.
If he feels likes some other guy is winning your attention and he can’t do anything but watch helplessly, he may end up getting upset. He may even try to badmouth the flirty guy.
The next time you’re out with this guy friend, flirt with another guy. If you don’t see any response from him, start to get a bit touchy feely with the other friend. How does this particular friend behave? Do you notice a change in his behavior? Even if he tries his best, a guy who has a crush on you can’t help but feel awkward and uncomfortable.
2. He tries to make a good impression
Does this guy always try to help you out, be it walking a few blocks with you in search of your lost pet cat or shopping for a new dress?
Friends may be willing to help, but not without a bit of pestering. If a guy promptly jumps out of his seat to help you fix a problem, he may indeed like spending time with you. If a friend goes out of his way to help you out or behaves like an unintentional man friday, he may be a really nice guy or just a guy who’s in love with you.
Let’s put this to the test. One weekend, call him up and tell him you plan to go shopping all day. And sneakily mention that you’re going alone. Guys hate shopping, especially with girls who want to shop all day.
When you slip the tiny detail that you’re shopping all alone, does he suddenly seem excited and interested to tag along? That’s a sign that a guy likes you!
3. He wants to get to know you
When you like someone, you want to get to know all about them. Curiosity is natural when you’re falling for someone.
Does this friend of yours want to know all the details about your childhood years, and ahem, your exes and crushes too? Friends can be curious too, but if the curiosity lingers more on your love life and your romantic interests, there’s a good chance this guy likes you.
Does he call you late at night almost all the time and tries to have a long conversation? You may enjoy a good talk while lying in bed, but if it starts to become a regular affair, there’s a good chance that he likes you and you like talking to him. After all, who gives up their sleep to have a mindless conversation?
4. He asks you out
Does he ask you out? As friends, of course! He may not tell you that he likes you or is falling for you, but one of the signs that a guy likes you is his ability to create a date moment out of any situation.
A new movie in town? A shopping sale, perhaps? Or is it a new restaurant? Does he ever want to check out a movie or a place with you? When a guy likes you, he may not be able to ask you out directly, but he’d be looking for an opportunity to sneak in a date when he’s with you.
Talk about the new restaurant that’s opened just around the corner the next time you’re with him, and mention that you’d like to go there sometime. You don’t even need to sound enthusiastic about it. If he immediately responds by asking you out and doesn’t talk about involving any other friend, you’ve got yourself another sign that this guy likes you.
5. He’s been thinking of you
If you’ve ever had a crush on someone, you’d know that this crush of yours would float in and out of your mind all day. And heck, you may even dream of your crush when you sleep at night.
And if you’ve ever been in love with someone, you’d think of them all the time too. And every now and then, you’d find something that reminds you of your lover. Does this friend text you out of the blue, while shopping or even trekking, and tells you that something out there reminded them of you?
You’ve got yourself a loverboy, haven’t you?
If a guy friend constantly talks about you or remembers you now and then, and tells you about it, he’s obviously trying to let you know that he has a special place for you in his heart. If it’s a one off confession, perhaps it’s no big deal. But if you find your friend remembering you or thinking of you often, it’s a sign that he likes you and is trying to get your attention.
Now that you know all the signs that a guy likes you, use it to your advantage. If you do like him too, give him a chance to ask you out with these pointers and it’ll definitely work in your favor.